Cocktail Party

I had the idea to host a party specifically to re-wear a dress that I bought in France and only wore to one wedding. The idea stemmed from the realization that every girl must own a dress that they spent too much money on and only wore once. I sent out the Facebook invites under the title "That Dress You Never Get to Wear" - everyone has to dress up (boys too) and it was a BYOC (bring your own champagne) event.

Lucky me, I live in a building with a rooftop deck. I think people were intimidated by the way we were all dressed so if anyone came up that wasn't invited, they didn't stay long, which was nice.

I ended up spending a grand total of $125 for the everything. Here is a little run down:

3 small raspberry packs
2 small blackberry packs
1 pound of five english cheddars
1 pound of parmigiana
2 pepperoni sticks
1 sausage stick
5 peaches
1 cantaloupe
1 giant pack of napkins
1 liter of sparkling rosé
1 liter of sweet champagne
1 1.5 liter of brut champagne
4 6-packs of plastic champagne glasses (holla family dolla)
1 box of 32 toast cracker things

One thing I knew I wanted to do was have a drink fixings bar. I puréed half a cantaloupe and put it into a fancy, glass, water bottle. I sliced peaches and skewed berries to pour champagne over in a glass. Any left overs were free for finger foods. The berries looked absolutely adorable. My boyfriend and I were special and we drank out of the only two champagne glasses that I had so that is what is depicted below.

I used a large photo frame as tray which I filled with photographs that I took in France. The tray held a pretty candle and the plastic goblets. Some people felt welcome to add their own bottles to the table as the night went on.

My wonderful friend, Hannah, took mini polaroids all night. And here is the coffee table of snackage. I figured people know how to cut they're own meat and cheese, so I provided a knife instead of doing it all myself which saved me a ton of time (someone of course broke my favorite knife later that evening, but he promised to replace it and I suppose it makes for a good story haha).

Over all, it was an incredible evening and I can't wait to host another "soirée" in the future. 

I would like to take this time to thank my incredible boyfriend for running to my apartment constantly to let people use the bathroom and get silly things like a spoon without hesitation or any complaints at all. He is an amazing human and I really am the luckiest gal. Here is a candid taken by my once again, ever-so-lovely friend, Hannah.

I hope this post helps with your party planning or gives you some good ideas! As always, stay simple and easy - and maybe just a little fancy this time.

Best,

Michelle


Hannah's Website
Glass Water Bottle
Marble Wine Cooler
White Lace Candle Holder

The Big Reveal: My Blue Velvet Triumph

You're at a flea market or thrift store. You see an adorable piece of furniture with the ugliest fabric and/or paint color. So your options are to take it home for $35, hopefully only have to put under $100 into fixing it up OR you can buy something new.

An alternative scenario is that you wish you were the bargain fixer-upper, but you just can't visualize the potential in something old. Some people are just born with this ability but don't worry, anyone can follow some simple tips to engage this part of their brain.

There are the easy DIY's that involve a fresh coat of paint or a knob replacement. Simple frames, for example, cost me a total of $10. $2 for the four frames, $4 each for the two spray paint cans - easy.

Then there are difficult tasks, like the one I am revealing. I do have some sewing skills and I think that definitely helped with figuring out how to approach this couch even without a sewing machine. I used a staple gun for everything!

It is just a part of my artist brain that when I come across some things, I can't help but see the potential in them. Some times I forget the work that has to be put into it and it takes forever like the lovely couch below. 

I bought this couch in March expecting it to be done some time this summer. I just finished it yesterday August 30th! It only took me a total of 3 hours to do (which I probably should have taken more time but I didn't have any more time - I just wanted it to be done!) but accumulating the fabric and tools and paint to get it done took much more time. Above, is the couch shown how it lives in my space, the other photographs do not properly represent that unless otherwise noted.

This couch is absolutely not perfect. It has maybe too much "character" but my apartment kind of needed something strange to put in the center of its very stark black and white space. So below is the beauty before I changed anything. I knew that I wanted to have a pop of color in my space. Velvet is a trend that made its way back into everyone's interior decorating and I have always loved it! But before all that I fell in love with the shape of this settee. Bucket shape has always been a love of mine - more so with chairs than love seats but it definitely won my heart in this case. The legs were also something that attracted me, 60s retro is very much back in decorating style.

So ugly, I know! That pattern actually lived in my apartment all summer - I can hardly believe it myself! Hopefully you guys can see why I thought it had potential though. It was only $65!

After choosing my fabric, I thought I wanted silver metallic paint. So I went on Lowes and ordered what I thought was metallic silver, but it wasn't! I actually ordered a silver 'satin' paint (linked below). But I opened the jar and actually liked it more so I just went with it! Initially I painted ALL of the woodwork expecting to have it all showing but those arms were way too hard to cover with my only tool being a staple gun, so I ended up wrapping the fabric around the arm.

My goal for this couch was achieved - I covered this couch in 3 total pieces. I did not photograph the steps because I am obviously inconsiderate to anyone that actually reads this blog but if someone really wants to reupholster their couch in this train wreck way, I'd be happy to make a video demo or something. I'm sure any sane person would just go pay someone else to do it but not this gal! Depicted below is how I approached the task. One piece for the bottom in blue, one for the seat - purple, and one piece to start at the back and come around to the front and under the seat - yellow.

So then I just went at it! Starting from the little strip in front and then I went around back and worked my way over. The hardest part were the arms and deciding how I wanted to do them. I made it up as I went along really. But I am so happy with the results.

Like I said, it's not perfect whatsoever but I love it because I did it all by myself! That really is the most rewarding part. (Above does show how it looks in the space).

I hope this post doesn't make you crazy! I know it is very scatter-brained but it's because I am too! I actually cannot get the song 'Blue Velvet' out of my head for the past two weeks. I hope this finds you inspired to get the bargain beauty piece in your space that you always wanted. I also hope that this helps your life stay simple and easy (and not crazy).

Best,

Michelle

Paint
Fabric

The Look for Less

First of all, I would like to apologize for taking so much time off but I have been very busy "behind the scenes", getting ready for a very big reveal that is taking FOREVER. No worries though, it shall be ready within the next couple of weeks so stay tuned! I have also been working on a big photo project that has consumed much of my time. But enough excuses, here is the latest addition to the apartment.

I made this beautiful and one of a kind, wall weave. I actually have no idea what to call this, but all the kids are making them these days. The most important thing is that I had a lot of fun making it and it only took me about 5 episodes of Grace and Frankie to make it!

The supplies consisted of drift wood that I found and two types of yarn (you can use more if you like). Always buy more than you anticipate using. I bought two cream and one grey yarn. If you would want yours bigger than mine, definitely buy three bundles of whatever your base color is - I only have a small bundle left. Here is what it looks like in the space.

I personally wanted mine to be a loose weave. I have seen others that are super tight but I wanted mine to look kind of old and raggedy. I just did a simple criss cross pattern and threw in grey at random. I do apologize for not including a how-to but I can try to explain: I took every other strand and separated them so that it doubled in length. I then laid one strand across all of them. Then I just criss crossed each opposing strand (I'm sorry, this probably makes no sense!). Here are some close ups.

The knots were super easy... they're just knots! 

I hope this doesn't frustrate you and I hope it helps your life stay simple and easy - as always!

Best,

Michelle

Becoming a Morning Person

Becoming a morning person is not easy. I used to be such a night owl and thought that mornings were evil sun-filled sleep deprivers, but my outlook has changed. I realized that being a morning person means getting so much more done! You have so many more hours of day light! And maybe, you get all of your blogging done at 3am, but I have a naturally lazy side - I like using natural light in my blog photos to avoid setting up lights and that is only achieved in day light. Believe me there are ways to change yourself and in my opinion, becoming a morning person has to start with the space you are in.

For starters, my bed is the absolute coziest and it is really so hard to leave it. Start by setting your alarm to a really good-feel song… across the room. For some, getting up to shut off your alarm is the only way to get out of bed.

Now the next thing you have to change is your attitude. I know you're cranky, I usually am too but try to think of all of the things you can get done with this extra time! Positivity is a really good key… also, prepping the night before. If you have a list of things to do the next morning i.e.:

• Fix coffee/breakfast
• Take blog photos
• Finish blog post 
• Do some yoga
• Read a chapter of book or a couple poems
• Water plants
• Clean bathroom

etc etc., the list can go on and on even if they are little things! Prepping the night before definitely goes further than your list though. Have your coffee ready to be made! It makes moving around easier when there is less to do. Most importantly though, make your living space just as inviting as your bed. I set up a little area so that I can do three vinyasa to start my day breathing and getting my blood pumping - I automatically feel more awake. Then I light a candle, drink my coffee and read a poem or two.

You can put a blanket down, some pillows, and your yoga mat, and this will help you feel like mornings can be comfortable and easy. I also like to make my desk inviting so that when I'm done reading, I can move over easily to my desk and pay bills or blog or whatever. My desk will have more candles and the rest of my coffee waiting.

Aroma therapy is a great way to wake up as well. Breathing deeply and inhaling relaxing scents will help you stay relaxed, avoid a stressful morning, and of course make sitting/working at 8am more enjoyable. Keep in mind that being a "morning person" does not mean you have to start cutting out sleep. The earlier you start waking up, the more you will get tired in the evening, so now you have to choose which you prefer! Do you want to be a morning person? And the answer can certainly be no! Maybe this can help you getting up at 1 in the afternoon too!

Whatever you choose, I hope this helps your life stay simple and easy!

Best,

Michelle

Book: Robert Browning's Poems

The Look for Less

Whenever I am home, my mother has tons of design magazines. Ballard's Designs in particular is one that always makes me want to claim bankruptcy! A few months back they showed beautiful glass jugs with fairy lights in them on the "apron" of a fireplace (it's that little stoop in the front fyi). It was so adorable and I already had the lights, all I needed were the jugs… that cost $100?? You can see them here if you are curious. Now I get it, these are sold as hand blown glass and that makes them really expensive…no, you're right I don't get it at all. So I was on the hunt to find the perfect replacement.

I actually like mine better AND it's a real wine jug. Carlo Rossi, some of the cheapest wine on the planet. Most people use it for cooking because it tastes horrid, I use it for decoration. I work at an upscale Italian restaurant and when I saw these in the kitchen (they use it to cook with, of course), I asked them to save me one. 

*Tip to remove the label: Put the jug in the sink and let hot water run over the side of the jug where the label is. Remove from the water after about a minute and use rubbing alcohol on a paper towel to rub the label off. Repeat from beginning if necessary.*

It has created an adorable little corner in my apartment and I hope it will inspire you to create one of your own! And of course, I hope this helps your life stay simple and easy.

Best,

Michelle

Other mentionables:

Apothecary bottle from Target

Bombay Sapphire Dry Gin

Carlo Rossi

Fairy Lights from Anthropologie

Budgeting and Planning: Drinks!

Going out on the weekend is what we do best - we are the youth! We are living in our first apartment and we are fabulous! Yes! I can handle another shot of tequila, who are you to tell me otherwise?!

We all know it gets excessive and I'm not just talking about shots - I'm talking about spending money. I very much regret nothing from last night except for the $100 bill that I insisted on picking up. Whoops! What helps this spending? Pre-game parties and of course soirées.

As for my bar area… it's a work in progress. It's a shared table with my record player and it's location is not quite settled in the space. I will have a more extensive bar area post once I think it's ready - I really would like a bar cart but the one I want is a little out of budget right now.

Technically these glasses are stemless wine glasses - but I plan on using them for cocktails too. They were much cheaper than the cocktail glasses that I wanted from Macy's and cheaper and better quality than the ones I wanted from Anthropologie. I saw them in the store and they were very light, I was nervous they would break easily. The glasses I purchased are from West Elm at $8 a piece (you can buy them a la carte in the store) and they feel very sturdy. Not to mention, breaking $8 glasses won't make me cry as hard as breaking $20 glasses. The fact that they are wine glasses does kind of bother me but I figure at my age, I very well might be the only person that knows that these are wine glasses - also if there is alcohol in it, who cares?

Sometimes I feel like I am constantly entertaining people and of course it gets tiring, but it's a lot cheaper than bar hopping and can be a great way for you to expand your inner bartender! Think of it this way: $20 - $40 on a bottle can be less expensive than the bar tab.

Here are a few tips to help this method be successful:

• Don't purchase cheap alcohol. Go ahead and spend more than you normally would knowing that it is for you and you are going to make yourself nice cocktails. 

• If someone asks for you to make them a drink, say "of course, but you owe me one later!" You bought the bottle to save money, not dish out.

• This may or may not be obvious, but do drink enough before so that you know you will only get one or two drinks while you're out.

I hope this inspires you to start entertaining your guests with a little bar fun! And of course, I hope this helps your life stay simple and easy.

Best,

Michelle

Alternative Coffee Methods and Why

There are many reasons why alternative coffee methods are the way to go. These are my three favorites: The French press, the drip coffee maker, and the espresso percolator ( or Cafetera). All three create a different type of coffee and a different type of coffee-drinking experience. These are much better than electric percolators and especially Keurigs. And all fulfill the need to clear counter space for the minimalist lifestyle.

First, the drip coffee maker (and my current favorite) creates the most rich and flavorful coffee. The design allows you to pour hot water over ALL of the coffee grounds, which really makes me feel like I am getting the most out of each individual ground. This method costs much less than electric perc ($40) and it makes better coffee so for me it's a no-brainer. Filters come in packs of 100 at $10 - I use un-bleached. The pointed end of the filter helps the coffee filter through slowly making each drip really count.

The brand is Chemex and you can get it at most specialty coffee shops. Here is a link to get it from Sur la Table. They have many sizes, I got the 6 cup maker.

The next coffee maker is the French Press. This is probably the most common among alternative coffee methods. In my opinion, it makes great coffee (and loose leaf tea!) but it does take more to make it great. I think that if you do not buy specially ground coffee specifically for the French press the end result may leave a type of "soot" at the bottom of your coffee cup. Unlike a usual filter, the mesh bottom of the French press will allow small grinds to pass through. This can be easily fixed though, either buy special grounds or wrap a regular coffee filter underneath the press - this will eliminate the "soot" tremendously. French Press coffee makers are easily found at TJMaxx (like mine) for no more than $15. IKEA has it for $9!

When it comes to espresso, things can get expensive. If you are all about that taste, Cafeteras are the way to go. I wouldn't just go ahead and invest in an espresso machine, great makers need even better espresso beans (which can be extremely expensive - like $80 a bag). Stove-top percolators make really great espresso (but be warned they do not make crema (light creamy foam on top) so you will not be on your way to making latte art any time soon with this). When I was in the south of France, this was the only way we drank coffee and I apparently got hooked. These are also very inexpensively found at TJMaxx but here it is on Amazon too. I do really like illy espresso but I wouldn't spend the money (yes, I found it at TJMaxx for much cheaper). There are plenty of other brands at grocery stores for you to try out at a much smaller price.

And in case you are curious, the following photo is how I usually have them displayed on my counter top. My boyfriend bought me the vintage coffee tin, the coffee scoop is something I found at an art festival - lucky for you I saved their card and here is their Etsy: Riverwood Trading Co.

I hope this makes your mornings (and afternoons and evenings - let's be real) a little more minimal (and tasty). And as always, I hope this helps your life stay simple and easy.

Best,

Michelle